Somewhere along the journey of life each one of us takes a picture of ourselves. And in that snapshot, we magnify our faults. We memorialize a moment of failure, a moment of weakness, or an insecure or awkward stage of life.
At some point in time, someone said something, pointed out a fear, or made a judgment about you — and it stuck. In fact, it is still sticking.
As much as we try to hide, it seems impossible to get away from the flaw-filled person we see in the mirror. We are all wounded by the damage we have received, and even more, we all fear the damage we can cause.
As personal as our story may be, we are not the only ones who feel this way. It is a wound common to us all. Tucked away in the pages of the Bible, we find a man who shared our common pain, our common fear.
Now Jabez was more honorable than his brothers, and his mother called his name Jabez, saying, “Because I bore him in pain.” And Jabez called on the God of Israel saying, “Oh, that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain!” So God granted him what he requested. (1 Chronicles 4:9-10 NKJV)
I see three simple, yet powerful connections between each of us and the life of Jabez. Through acknowledging these three truths, we could each find ourselves breaking the cycles of our past and enjoying the grace of God for our lives today.
- We all carry scars. However hidden or personal our story may be, we are all united by the simple fact that we are not alone. Everyone around us finds themselves trying to make sense of their life. We all carry scars of the pain we have received and the pain we have caused.
- We all carry fear. The most damaging impact of the scars we carry is the haunting fear that the pain may not be over, that our past may wound us again in the future. We carry the fear of being hurt again and the fear of hurting others in the same way we were hurt. If left unanswered, our fears will box us into a small and unsatisfying life.
- We all carry hope. It is what moves us forward. Somehow, somewhere, someone has to have more to offer than a life lived in cycles of fear and pain. Hope invites us to take risks and embrace a life of meaning and purpose.
This was the story of Jabez. He carried the scars of the wounds he caused as a child and the fear of the name given him that he would continue to cause pain all the days of his life. But somewhere in the midst of the scars and fear, Jabez nurtured hope, and his hope caused him to cry out to the God who created him, “Bless me, indeed. Enlarge my territory. Let Your hand be upon me. Keep me from evil. Keep me from causing pain.”
A powerful and faith filled prayer. A prayer we still connect with on a very deep level.
If I were to summarize my personal connection with the prayer of Jabez, it would be: “I don’t want to keep hurting from the same old wounds, and I don’t want to be the link that causes my pain to become my children’s pain.”
Do you have a personal connection with the prayer of Jabez? How does his cry touch your heart? What does it stir in you?
May you be blessed indeed! May God enlarge your territory, your sphere of influence! May the hand of God be upon you. May God keep you from evil! May you and those you love be free from pain! Amen.
“Hope in the Midst of Pain: The Prayer of Jabez” is available online. Click to listen.
On the Radar
Our Youth Departed this morning for Extreme Camp. Please lift them up this week as they encounter the presence of God in a real and powerful way!
The Sale of Fireworks is currently banned for Nolan County. This has suspended our opportunity to manage a fireworks stand as a youth fundraiser. If we get some good Summer rain, the county may reverse its decision, but if not, we’ll wait until next year to man a fireworks stand.
Mother’s Day Out information is available online! Emmanuel Fellowship Church is excited to host a Mother’s Day Out program beginning Fall 2011 for children ages 1-5. There are only a few spaces remaining for the Fall semester. More information and downloadable registration forms are available by clicking HERE.
Click here to purchase a copy of The Prayer of Jabez by Bruce Wilkinson on Amazon.
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You Heard it at EFC
- “Jesus Forever” by Anthony Skinner
- “O Taste and See” by Brian and Jenn Johnson
- “Where You Go, I’ll Go” by Brian Johnson
- “Jesus Paid It All” Hillsong United version
Next Sunday, June 26, we continue our summer sermon series entitled, “Prayers that Shook the World.”
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